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Tours questions

What to expect on a tour, where and when to start, what to bring along, why take a tour...

Mail delivery questions

How it works, options, how fast...

Visas and Immigration

How to get Russian visa, how to bring your lady here, costs involved, how fast...

Gentlemen profiles

How to publish your profile with us for free and have ladies themselves write to you, how to add a picture to your profile... 

General

Q. What is your mailing address?

1st International
2665 N. Atlantic Ave. 222
Daytona Beach,
FL 32118
USA

You can forward all correspondence to this address, including payments and orders. 

Our fax number is (305) 946-2479.  If you are in the US, you can use our toll-free fax number (800) 211-8415

Q. The toll-free fax number you gave me is not working.

If you are outside the US, you cannot use the US toll-free numbers.  This includes our toll-free fax number.   In this case please use our regular (toll) numbers:

Phone: (386) 441-0321

Fax: (305) 946-2479

Q. Why are the girls on your site all so beautiful?  Are they even real?

A. It would not be true to say that ALL girls in Russia, Ukraine, etc. are very beautiful, although most of them are.  The reason why our site features so many good looking girls is because we do not publish every profile that is available to us.  There are so many girls looking for serious relationship with a westerner that we cannot put them all on our site.  We only take the ones with high quality pictures, good looking, with good language skills.  On an average we only publish one third of available profiles.  Coming soon we are going to allow you, the user, be the judge of which profiles you see.  We will add a criteria into our search engine that will allow you to filter profiles based on looks.

Q. Are these women just trying to get out of Russia and using a marriage for that purpose?  Is she going to stay with me after she is in the United States?

A.  First of all, let me be honest.  We can't vouch for all of these ladies.  In most cases our people meet those women in person and do some basic checking and screening, but it is impossible to look inside people's mind (at least FBI tells us so). But in reality we haven't heard of a single case where a newly wed Russian bride would leave her husband soon after she gets a permanent residency.   There are two reasons for that.  First, it is quite unrealistic to imagine a girl with no one here in a foreign country, all by herself, breaking the ties with the only man he can rely on. Second, the immigration laws here in the US (they are similar in other western countries) will allow a woman in such case to get a permanent residency only after 2 years of marriage.  Add several months for paper processing, visa waiting period, and you get about 3 years she will have to stay in the marriage, otherwise she would be deported back to her home country and might be permanently barred from ever coming to the US again.  I don't think it is realistic to think somebody can pull such a trick.  According to Washington Post article back in 1998 they have quoted a number of 4 divorces on 104 Russian - American marriages since 1993 for one of the companies doing business in the industry.   You probably know that the divorce rate here in the States is several times higher than that.

Q. I liked a particular profile on your page.  Can you give me more information about her?

A.   All the information we have about our ladies is always available to the members on their personal pages.  We publish everything we have.  The only way to find out more about them is to write to them yourself.

Q.  I don't want to send my credit card details over the Internet.  Can I pay by a check or bank draft?

A.  Yes.  Proceed as usual until you get to the payment information screen where you will choose you payment option, which may be a credit card, check, money order, cash, Western Union transfer, a wire transfer, or any other way of payment.  

"Proceed as usual" means: just add the ladies you are interested in to your selection as usual (by pressing "Add to my selection" button on their personal profile pages), and then when you are finished, go to "View my selection".  You will see the subtotal for your order and will have an option to add more ladies, or to remove some from your selection, or to proceed to check out.   When you are satisfied with your selection, press "Go" to proceed to checkout and follow the instructions on the next few screens.  At one of them you will be prompted to choose your payment method.  On the upper part of the screen you can enter your credit card information, and on its lower half, there is an option to do "Offline payment", which is exactly what you want if you prefer not to pay with a credit card.  Besides all 4 major credit cards, we accept checks, money orders, bank drafts, cash, wire transfers, Western Union transfers, etc.  On the next screen you will verify your selection and the entered information and press "Confirm".  This will bring you to the screen with tells you exactly where to send your payment.  We will send you the contact information of the ladies the moment we receive and clear your payment.

Q. I noticed some very beautiful women in their early to mid 20's looking for men upwards to 50 years old that concerns me that it is not so much about meeting the right man as opposed to just getting out.

A. This is quite common for Russian women to marry someone significantly older than themselves.  It's a part of the culture, marriages like that are absolutely normal in Russia.  The only reason why this causes concern over here is merely because of the stereotypes adopted in this society.  If you are going to pursue such a bold and outstanding goal like marrying a Russian lady, you better start seeing beyond those stereotypes now. 

Yet you need to be reasonable.  If you are 40 and are looking for a 18 years old bride, this might be a bit of a stretch, but 22-25 years old is just fine.

Tours

Q. I have decided to go on one of your romantic tours to Russia. Where do I start?

A.  You can start by reserving your space.   Go to the main tour page, choose your destination city, and make sure the dates you have in mind are available.  Then click the link under "Reserve" section on the right side of the page and fill out a reservation form.  You have to put down a $300 nonrefundable deposit so that we can start preparing your visa papers, arrange for transportation, etc.  This deposit also makes sure that our representative will be available at the dates you indicate.   If you prefer to do this over the phone, or if you have any questions, please call us toll-free at 1-877-362-3772, or (386) 441-0321 (from outside of the US)

If you are interested in a group tour, send us an inquiry, or please call.

Q.  How many ladies will I meet on a tour?

A.  On our group tour you will meet somewhere between 700 to 1700 ladies in person. On a private Moscow tour you will see about 400 profiles of available women and we will set up dates for you with the ones you pick.   You can meet 2-3 ladies in person every day. On a private Vinnytsya tour you will see about 200 profiles of available women.  You will pick the ones you like and will be able to meet about 5-6 girls each day.

Q.  Which ladies will I meet on a private tour?  Can I see their profiles now?

A.  On a private Moscow tour we can arrange dates for you with women from International Introductions agency.  To see the list of the ladies, please go to our search engine, and select "International Introductions" in the agency selection box.  Then press "Find the profiles that meet these criteria" button.  You will see about 400 ladies that will be available for you to meet in Moscow.  You do not have to purchase their addresses and / or start correspondence with them prior to your tour.  We will call them and tell them about you ourselves.   The list of ladies that you will see is not complete.  When you arrive there will be some new ladies which we have not posted on our site yet.

On a private Vinnytsya tour we can arrange dates for you with women from Laura Marriage Agency.  To see the list of the ladies, please go to Universal Dating search engine, and select "Laura Marriage Agency" in the agency selection box.  Then press "Find the profiles that meet these criteria" button.  You will see about 200 ladies that will be available for you to meet in Vinnytsya.  You do not have to purchase their addresses and / or start correspondence with them prior to your tour.  We will call them and tell them about you ourselves.   The list of ladies that you will see is not complete.  When you arrive there will be some new ladies which we have not posted on our site yet.

Note.  You can of course, purchase additional addresses of other women from agencies other than International Introductions and Laura Marriage Agency before you go on a tour.  In this case you will need to establish correspondence with them and arrange for meeting them yourself prior to your arrival.  If you do not, and if the women are from the area of your tour, we can help you by calling those ladies up when you come (if you have their telephone numbers), but we do not guarantee that they will be available, and that they will agree to meet you in person without prior correspondence.

Q. What are the dates for your next tour?

A. The private tours to Vinnytsya, Ukraine and to Moscow do not have fixed dates.  We do them on an individual basis, so you can go whenever you're pleased and stay as long as you want. Visit our Romantic Tours Page for the complete explanation of this.

See current available dates for the group tours.

Q.  How long does it take to get a visa to Russia or Ukraine?

If you already have a passport valid at least six months after the dates of your travel, we will fax you the visa support documents within 1-2 business days.  Then you need to apply to the consulate for the visa.

Visa processing to Russia takes about 2 weeks for standard processing, but you can pay extra money to have it ready even the same business day. 

Processing time is a little bit longer for Ukraine visa. 

Q.  How safe is it in Russia?

It is quite safe if you know where to go and what to do.  It might be pretty dangerous if you are lost and you are on your own.  If you stay out of unsafe neighborhoods, don't flash your cash and follow just the basic safety rules, you are going to be ok.  The most common second thought about the trip for our customers is the fear of being alone in a foreign country with nobody to rely on and not even speaking the language.  We take care of this.  You won't be alone, our representative will answer all your questions, advise you on the places to go out, where to exchange currency, how to get here and there.

Mail Delivery

Q. Is there any way to deliver a photo when sending a letter by e-mail forwarding?

A. Absolutely.  Just attach your photo to the letter you want forwarded.  You can use virtually any graphic format, but using .jpg format usually give the best results.  If you don't have your photo scanned, just mail it to us.  We will scan it for you.

Q. If I send a photo attachment to my e-mail how would it be printed to send to the recipient?

A. The pictures get printed on a high resolution color ink jet printer.  We print the photos separately from letters, using a quality high resolution paper for that.   That's why we charge a separate fee for forwarding the pictures.

Q.  I want to send the same letter to several girls but I want to personalize each copy by inserting her fist name in it, for example "Dear Irina, ....", instead of "Dear friend, ....".  Can you do this for me?

A.  Yes we can do this.  We can substitute up to 2 words in your letter, whether this is first name, age, profession, etc., for free.  We can do the same in your translated letter.  So you can pay us for just one translation and have it mailed to dozens of girls  For more complex service, just contact us.  We are flexible.

Visas and Immigration

Q. Do I need a visa to go to Russia, and can you help me obtain one?

A.  Normally yes, you need a visa in order to enter the Russian Federation.  If you are the USA citizen, you certainly need one.   We can send you the official invitation that you need in order to obtain a visa to Russia.  You will then send this invitation along with your passport, consulate fee, and passport-sized photo to the Russian Consulate in your country which has jurisdiction over your region.   Click here for the details and prices.

Q. Can you help me in bringing my bride-to-be to my home country?

A.  If you are in the US and are our customer - we can help you with a general advise on visas, procedures, forms, etc.  Feel free to call toll-free (800) 676-9149 and we will point you in the right direction.  You should know that we don't have an attorney on staff, and your particular situation may require one.   If you need an attorney, here is a good one.  His number is 1-661-FAST-HELP 

Q. How much will it cost to bring a woman here?

A. Note.  The estimate is for the US only. 

If you have finally met somebody and have decided to bring her to the States, you need to apply for her K (fiancé) visa.  The petition can be filled out by yourself.  I recommend purchasing one of those fiancé visa kits.  They are about $80 everywhere on the Internet. You file this petition with the INS office having jurisdiction over your district and patiently wait for the answer.  After you get it approved you send it to your bride and she goes to the US Consulate in her home country and applies for the visa.  Add the INS fee, postage, visa processing fee and you get about $250 for that step.

The airfare is going to be around $700.  When she is here and you get married you might want to apply for a permanent resident status for her.  This is going to run about $500 in fees and required medical tests, if you fill out the forms by yourself.

If you want a lawyer to do all the form filing for you, the fee may vary anywhere from one to several thousand dollars depending on a particular lawyer and the circumstances of your case.

Q. What is the average amount of time to be granted a visa for a Russian woman?

A. The actual process should be within 2 weeks if there are no complications.  That does not include filing your petition.   

Q. Does the time shorten if you throw more money at the process?

A. Generally no.  The waiting times are the same for everybody.

Q. Do you have to marry the women in their home country or can you bring them here in the US?

A. I recommend bringing your bride to the US on a K (fiancé) visa and then marrying her here.  This way while she is waiting for her permanent residency papers she is in the US with you.  If you get officially married in Russia, she will have to wait for those papers in her home country.  This process is lengthy, might take as long as 6 or more months, so you really need to take this into consideration.

Free Gentlemen Profiles

Q. What are Gentlemen Profiles and how does this work?

A.  Gentlemen can post their own personal ads with pictures absolutely free on our web site.  We will create a personal page for each gentlemen who submitted his ad to us. These ads will be viewed by ladies (mostly from CIS) visiting our page.  Many ladies posted on our page come to check on their profiles and it's quite likely that they would take a look at available men.  If your ad interests them, they can send you an e-mail right there from your personal page.  This is totally free for the ladies, too. The entire process is automatic, including posting your picture along with your profile.  First, you submit your personal ad, fill out some biographical data and your profile gets published instantly.  To do so, please go to the Gentlemen Profiles page and click "Fill it!".  After you choose your nickname and password, answer a couple of biographical questions and write what you are looking for in a woman, you click "submit" and your ad is online.  In a minute you will receive an automatic e-mail confirmation with your user ID and the password.  You will need these to edit or delete your ad, or to add a picture to it, so please save this message.  This message will also have all necessary instructions.

Q. How do I add a picture to my profile?

A.  First of all, you need to have a nice scanned picture of yourself on your hard disk, floppy, or CD-Rom.  The picture should not be bigger than 350 pixels in width, and 500 pixels in height.   It must be in *.jpg or *.gif format.  And you should keep it's size under 300 Kb maximum (under 60 Kb recommended).  If the picture you have does not meet these criteria, please use any graphic package to edit it. After you have submitted your personal profile, we will send you an automatic e-mail confirming that you have been registered in our database.  This e-mail will also contain instructions on how to update your profile, a link to the page where you can do that, and your User ID and password needed to log on that page.   Follow the link, enter your User ID and password and you will log on to your personal profile in the "edit" mode, so that you can edit all the data you had entered.   At the top of the page there will also be a cartoon face with a note "No photo on file".  You need to click on the face to start uploading your picture.   After you click on the face, you will be presented with a dialog window that will allow you to browse your local computer and choose your picture that you want uploaded.

Q. How do I delete my profile?

A.   After you have submitted your personal profile, we will send you an automatic e-mail confirming that you have been registered in our database.  This e-mail will also contain instructions on how to update your profile, a link to the page where you can do that, and your User ID and password needed to log on that page.   Follow the link, enter your User ID and password and you will log on to your personal profile in the "edit" mode, so that you can edit all the data you had entered.   At the bottom of the page there will also be a button "Delete profile".  Note that you need to enter you password above this button one more time in order to complete the action.

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